FAQ – Get Your Ex Back and Love Healing

Answers from Alexis Sophos (Phone Support + Distance Ritual Work)

How high is the chance of success?
I'll say it openly and with full responsibility: in my practice, the chance of success is 97%.
Not because love is "easy," but because I've been handling exactly these kinds of situations for many years: long distance, blocks, new people involved, total silence, emotional wounds, and chaos.
A lot of people come to me when they're almost ready to give up — but deep down they still feel: there's something there.
And that's often where the turning point begins: when there's no more arguing, no more pushing, and the work is done calmly, cleanly, and consistently.
I don't do this "on the side." I don't do it halfway. I don't do "let's see." I work with precision, structure, and real dedication — day after day, in the direction that fits your situation.
For you, that means: you don't have to act tough, you don't have to be perfect, and you don't have to carry everything alone.
You're allowed to let hope back in without feeling ashamed.
You're allowed to want warmth again, real contact again, a person softening again — and for your love to get a real chance.
When you decide to start, you're no longer alone in your overthinking. There's clear guidance and a real path.
And I promise you this: I take your story seriously — and I give everything I have to turn pain into direction again.

Does this really work long-distance — or is it just "online talk"?
Yes, it works. And I'm not saying that as a slogan — my whole system is built for it: phone/WhatsApp guidance, and ritual work done long-distance — clearly led, consistent, professional.
A lot of people come to me because they're tired of "talking and talking." They want one thing: movement. Contact becoming possible again. A person becoming softer again. Coldness turning back into closeness.
Distance isn't the real topic. Quality is. And that's where I'm strong: top-tier execution, clean structure, a clear line — no chaos, no drama.

How discreet is this?
Discretion isn't "one item on a list" for me — it's my highest standard. Many clients come to me exactly because they do not want this public — not around people they know, not with friends, not with family, and definitely not online.

You don't have to post anything. Nobody is "informed." Nobody is included. Communication is direct and protected, and the work stays in the background. That means: no unnecessary noise, no attention, no situations that could make you uncomfortable.

And if you have special discretion requests, we take it even further:
If you say "maximum discretion," that's what you get. If you say "email only," then it stays email only. If you say "no calls," then there are no calls. If you say "short messages only," we keep it short.

With me it's not: "We do whatever we want." With me it's: you set the boundaries — and your wishes are followed. That way you feel safe, and you also know the work continues professionally.

Do I have to show up in person or take part somewhere?
No. You don't have to show up anywhere. I don't have a "ritual room" you need to come to.
Many clients are busy with work, live far away, or simply want to stay discreet. This is exactly what my process is built for.
You get the guidance directly from me, and the work runs in the background — without turning your life upside down.

How does the process work — in simple terms?
I keep it so you immediately understand what happens:
You write to me briefly: who you are, who the other person is, what happened, and what you want. A few sentences are enough.
You get a clear assessment: what direction fits, what package makes sense, what the strongest logical approach is.
You book in the e-shop (analysis or a package, depending on how you want to start).
You receive confirmation by email — and from that point on the work runs, as agreed, through your booked time.
No detours. No games. No "we'll get back to you someday." Clear process.

Analysis first or book directly — what's better?
Both are possible. The difference is simple:
• Analysis is the fastest way to clarity. After that, you know exactly what direction makes sense for you and what package fits.
• Direct booking is for people who already know the process and want to start immediately.
Many start with analysis because they don't want to guess. Others book directly because they already know what they want. Both are fine — what matters is: clear request, clear direction.

Booking / Direct booking: What info does Alexis Sophos need from me?
After you book and pay, please email me.
So I can take your situation in hand right away and start cleanly, I only need these few details:
• Your full name + date of birth
• The other person's name + date of birth (if you're not sure about the date of birth, just leave it blank)
• Photos are welcome and often helpful, but not required. If you want, send 1–2 current photos.
That's all I need. From that moment, you can mentally let go — I'll take care of giving your connection a real chance again.

What exactly do I get in a package?
You book once — and during the booked time, the work is done in the agreed direction, daily and consistently.
This matters: many people expect "one quick push and done." Tough love situations usually don't work like that. What works is consistency: a guided process, not a lucky hit.
You won't be overwhelmed with constant back-and-forth. You get clear orientation, and the work runs steadily in the background.

How long does it take until my partner comes back?
In most cases it happens very fast — usually within the time you booked. Very often it happens even sooner than people expect. Many are honestly surprised how quickly movement can show up: first a sign, then contact, then a conversation — and then it can move faster than they ever thought.
Still, every love story is different. For some it happens after 2 days, for others after 2 weeks — sometimes it takes a few steps before it really locks in. The key point is: it's not about perfect timelines — it's about results.

7 days, 5 weeks, 10 weeks — how do I choose the right one?
First, the most important thing: all rituals are complete and equally strong. Any direction can bring the result you want — nothing is "less."
The difference between 7 days, 5 weeks, and 10 weeks is not "stronger vs. weaker," it's the number of ritual days. More days means: more work done, higher quality, more luck, more positive development — and in many cases more of what you want.
Important: a longer duration is not automatic success. 10 weeks doesn't mean "guaranteed." It means: more rituals, more substance, more consistent guidance over time. At the same time: the 7-day package can also bring the result you want.
Here's a practical way to see it:
• 7 days: full quality in a short format — compact, consistent, no detours.
• 5 weeks: clearly more ritual days — ideal if you want more substance and more buildup over time.
• 10 weeks: maximum ritual duration — for clients who want the longest line and want to fully use what's possible.
The clearest answer comes through analysis: I look at your case and tell you how many ritual days make sense and which package fits your goal best — so you don't guess, you book the right fit.

What if the other person blocked me or doesn't respond?
That's a very common starting point. Sometimes you're not only blocked on WhatsApp — but everywhere: phone, social media, even through friends. You feel like you can't learn anything anymore and every door is shut.
That's exactly what my rituals are made for. I've worked for years with cases like this — total silence, hard blocks, situations where it looks like there's no way in. In many stories, contact can become possible again, even after a long time.
And yes: even if you feel you made big mistakes or carry a lot of blame — that does not automatically rule out success. It's not about "who's guilty." It's about guiding the dynamic so openness and contact can return.

What if there's a new relationship or a third person involved?
That happens very often. And I have strong, targeted solutions for it. In these cases the goal is to weaken and dissolve the outside bond and that person's influence, so your ex becomes free inside again and your connection has room again.
I've handled these setups for years and I know which direction is smartest — depending on how solid that new bond really is, how long it's been going on, and what's happening underneath.
The goal is clear: the interference goes out, the bond to you gets stronger, contact and closeness become possible again. And when it fits the case, the work is guided so the development stabilizes in your direction — not somewhere else.

Can I extend later or upgrade?
Yes — you can do that at any time. If you already booked a package and later say, "I want more time, more ritual days, and more substance," extending or upgrading is easy.
Many clients do this because they want to strengthen the result: more luck, more positive development, more closeness, more stability in the direction they want. Others extend because they simply feel, "I want to do more — I want it fuller, stronger, more complete."
You don't have to explain it in a complicated way. You write briefly that you want to extend or upgrade — and we do it exactly the way you need.

Can the ritual type be changed later?
Yes — of course. We can adjust the direction anytime, and we can also switch completely if your situation changes.
This happens more often than people think: you book a package for Plan A, and then real life shifts fast — contact happens, a third person appears, there's a conversation, a block disappears, or there's a new turn. In that moment it's important not to stay rigid, but to respond immediately in the right way.
That's exactly what we do: when you change the plan, the remaining time is used for Plan B — for what you actually need now. No extra cost, no detours, no complicated steps. You write briefly what changed and what you want now — and we realign the work right away.

What situations is my work made for?
When a relationship breaks down, it rarely happens "for no reason." Usually there were fights, disappointments, misunderstandings, wounds — and at some point the connection turned cold. Many people experience the same pattern: first distance, then silence, then blocking, then the line "I feel nothing," or "leave me alone."
My work is built for exactly these situations: when access is gone, when talking doesn't work anymore, when your heart still wants it but the door feels closed.
Even if cheating is part of the story, trust is broken, or your ex suddenly seems "like a different person" — these are not rare exceptions. These are common starting points for people who feel lost but still sense: "There's something there."

Do I need to act fast, or can I wait?
Many hope it will "fix itself." They wait, they watch, they swallow it down — and the distance often grows. Not because you're "guilty," but because new habits form: less contact, less closeness, less willingness.
If you act, you're not acting from weakness. You're acting because this love matters to you, and you don't want a temporary problem to become permanent.
Simply put: if you feel it sliding away, clarity is better than months of mental torture.

What do you need from me for the work — exactly?
I keep it intentionally simple. No long forms. For the work, I only need the basic details so everything is clearly assigned.
Always needed: your full name + date of birth.
For the ex: name + date of birth only if you're truly sure. If you're not sure, leave it blank — better clean than guessed.
Photos: helpful, but not required. If you want to send them, 1–2 current photos are enough. Nothing more.

If I send photos, what should they look like?
Normal photos, please. No studio, no filter contest, no "perfect shot."
Best is a photo where the face is clear. If you only have one photo together, that's fine. If other people are in the background, that's not a problem.
If possible: no sunglasses, no heavy filters, no very old photo from another time.
But again: photos are a bonus — not a ticket in. If you don't have photos, that's not a stop sign.

What exactly do you do — without complicated terms?
I don't do show, and I don't talk in confusing language. I work with one clear principle: I align the work precisely to your situation and lead it consistently through the time you booked.
Think of it like a force that doesn't knock once and disappear — it stays on it for days and weeks until something loosens.
The goal is that something inside starts moving again: thoughts, memory, closeness, willingness to talk — so "closed" becomes "possible" again.

Do I have to do anything during this?
No weird tasks. You don't have to learn rituals, say phrases, or do strange actions.
At most, you'll get simple guidance that helps you stay calm and not make the situation heavier than it needs to be.
Many people are nervous at first because they think they have to "work with it." You don't. You book the work — and that's what happens: it's done for you.

Will we be in contact a lot during the process?
You won't be flooded with messages. Many clients want exactly that: peace, discretion, no nonstop chatting.
If you have questions, you can of course write. But there's no requirement to report daily or constantly ask for updates.
This work doesn't need daily debate to be strong. It needs clear direction and consistent execution — that's my job.

What if friends/family/people around them are influencing them a lot?
It happens more than people think. Some exes are under nonstop outside influence: friends, family, new contacts, new partners — and suddenly everything is against the relationship.
I factor those influences into the alignment, because they're often exactly what blocks closeness.
The goal is that your ex becomes clear inside again and isn't constantly pulled by the outside. Because in the end, what matters is not what others say — it's what's real inside them.

Does this also work for same-sex relationships?
Yes. No debate.
This is about love and connection — not labels.

Do you accept every case?
No — I don't work under "anything for a sale."
I look at whether the situation can be led in a meaningful way and what direction fits. If something doesn't make sense, I'll say it clearly.
I don't want you getting stuck in something pointless. If you start, it should be clean — not an experiment.

Will my partner find out?
No. You can rely on this: no chance.
Your partner won't be told, won't be briefed, and won't be contacted. No message, no call, no "hint" — nothing that would point them to it.
The work stays discreet in the background. Nothing obvious happens on the outside. For you, that means: you stay protected, calm, and private — and nobody notices anything.

I know you don't accept every case — but this is my heart's wish. Will you take my case anyway?
Yes, of course. If you truly want it and it matters to you, I'll take your case.
I know how much courage it takes to do this — especially when your heart has been carrying it for a long time and your mind can barely keep up.
You don't have to feel ashamed with me. You don't have to explain yourself or justify anything.
A heart's wish isn't a "problem." It's proof that this connection matters to you.
That's exactly why I treat each case with respect and full attention — not casually, but seriously.
You're allowed to have hope again without feeling bad about it.
You're allowed to say, "I want this. I want this person. I want this chance."
And when you make that decision, you don't walk the path alone anymore.
There is guidance, clarity, and work that's aligned to your goal.
Write to me briefly — and we start.

Get your ex back even with alcohol, drugs, or gambling addiction?
Yes — people with addictions also get their ex back.
Not because everything is perfect, but because love can be stronger than a collapse.
When alcohol, drugs, or gambling gets in the way, your ex often sees only chaos — not your heart.
But your heart is still there. And that matters.
I don't just look at "get your ex back," I look at the whole dynamic: why it breaks, why it escalates, why trust collapses.
And I align the work so calm returns, control returns, clarity returns.
So your ex doesn't only feel fear — but starts feeling, "This person is serious."
Many people think they're too far gone, too broken, too late.
That's the moment I say: this is exactly when things can turn.
If you really want it, direction comes back.
Contact can become possible again, conversations can happen again, closeness can grow again.
And while that happens, the addiction topic is not ignored — it's carried with the process, step by step.
No pointless talk — guidance.
No judgment — a real chance.
And a path where your love moves forward again.